Wednesday, February 16, 2011

......."IS YOUR LOVE FOREVER?"........

......."Is Your Love Forever?".......

     When it comes to the subject of love, things change a bit.  We do not welcome all unexpected big changes in at out love life.  We loathe  separation, sickness, and death in a relationship, and if we really love out partners, we try to cement it, further with little aspects, we ordinarily encounter such as going together to a charming restaurant we just discovered.  Everyday is a bright new day for us, there is no need to look for alterations and novelty where there is none.  We say our love is firm, it will last forever, and then we happily settle in a nut.
      Where men are happily settled and women see them as a bag in rug, they become curious and want to get things moving.  Fortunately, this behavior is not forever and when the couple has learned to live with each other, accepting their short comings and all they will settle into other more serious business.  Time or maturity, where ever comes first changes them.
      Falling in love takes three forms, loving the other for what he/she really is, seeing ourselves through him/her, or experiencing affinity where each of the couple mutually feels oneness  with  each other.  These are the types of love that go on.
      Love is an expression of human emotions of affection and caring, and as long as we live, we expend effort to please our partners and after we shall have passed on, what happens on the other side?  Shall the love we  had shared with our partners in earth continue?  Is he/she our soul mate or shall we find, our real twin souls there?
      One of the most abused word is "soul mate".  It is a immediately applied to describe the emotions felt for a partner suggesting he or she is perfect and the only one.  Finding somebody who is a lot compatible with ourselves is not an easy task and finding someone who is very, very like our own selves is even much more difficult.  
       In this regard, each of the couple, regardless of how close they have been to each other will how be complete.  Couples can choose to be together and if there is true love and if they really wish happiness for their fun. This may be a totally foreign concept for us but it gives hope and defines happiness to what we may find next.  
      Therefore, Love is Forever and the concept changes and becomes a bit more profound when we deal about it in a different realm or dimension.  Each person will be happy in the own piece of paradise,  and as for the third party?  He or she will be far away from the happy couple.....

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