........"REAL LOVE BEGINS WITH TWO PEOPLE"........

..."Real Love Begins With Two People"...


      We are born alone and die alone. Sadly, too, for, some of us live alone.
 We could not help but relate giving to loving, since there must be love in our hearts in order to give genuinely.  Nobody has gone close to the definition of love, simply because the best definition lies with in ourselves.  It says that love is when two lonely people discover each 0ther in their vast emptiness that is much of modern life and hold out their hands to one another.  "Real love begins when two people discover the loneliness and the need of each other and realize that they can do something for the other".  The first reaction of love is just to touch, to communicate, to share and to make a difference in another life.  We sometimes don't know that it happens in the strangest places, like smiling at someone in the jeepney or at a friends party or even saying "HI",  somebody we meet along the corridor.
      Love grows after the initial of friendship grows into a much deeper feeling.  As we begin to be more concerned of the other and less on our own selves, we begin to view the other as important as our lives...we begin to genuinely GIVE....we begin to truly Love   The real mystery is how two people-so different from each other-become one.
        Giving out love and receiving in return is a very nice feeling to be in but we should always put in mind that when ever there love, consequences and sacrifices follow.  We should never forget that there is no sun without rain, labor without rest and likewise love without pain.  We ought to do certain sacrifices if we love someone, since loving a person is no longer a "ME" or "YOU" but "WE".  Sometimes we need to sacrifice going out without "barkadas" to attend to the needs of our love arises.  We sacrifice our own pleasures to the concerns of the other, and even sacrifice to be with the family on Sundays just to hear mass with that special someone.  Pain s what we get in return to love, aside from happiness and contentment.  It is something we human belongs tend to avoid because it is the hardest way to learn.  The hardest lesson always hurts-but is the only way that teaches us how to survive.  What is not hard here on earth?
       A quote on love:  Love begets love, after you've given all you have, love begets love... I didn't know at that time what it meant but as I go through life and love, slowly I've come to realize that love is all about risk..it is about how you put your heart on the line for something nice but painful feeling.
      "We must not expect too much from life.  We must give to life at least as much as we receive from it.  Every moment, one lives differently from the other.  The good, the bad, hardship, the joy, the tragedy, love, and happiness are all interwoven into one single indescribable whole thing called life.  We cannot separate the good from the bad.  And perhaps there is no need to do so either".